Travel:  don’t do it

Don’t go; stay home

where your feet know the way along the street,

where you speak and your words are understood,

where you easily find Hostess Twinkies at the supermarket.

 

Don’t let your feet wander through remote villages without roads.

Don’t feel the panic when your words are not understood.

Don’t shop where you must pay in a different currency.

 

Don’t go; stay home

where you know what you are eating – it’s familiar home cooking,

where you can get a 32 oz Big Gulp at the corner 7-Eleven,

where you can turn on your TV to see Monday Night Football.

 

Don’t taste the way combinations of unknown spices make a tasty meal.

Don’t take your espresso at the counter of a bar that’s in a train station.

Don’t walk where everyone views the Premier League on large screens along the street.

 

Don’t go; stay home

where the combinations of colors and patterns are all predictable and calm,

where the buildings and monuments are familiar, their stories well known,

where life, past and present, is a well-known part of history.

 

Don’t feel a surprising jolt of energy and joy when you see yellow, paired with pink.

Don’t lose your mind in the mesmerizing mix of geometry everywhere.

Don’t see the homes of the ancients still standing after a thousand years.

 

Don’t go; stay home.

Home is where you think you know yourself.

 

Don’t stay home.

Go away and find yourself.

 

 

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What have you discovered from your travels?

I wrote this poem a few years ago, borrowing the structure to describe my early experiences of travel.

Because I had no international travel experience until well into adulthood, my initial travels produced great ‘Aha!’ moments. I realized that everything that was familiar – everything that worked here at home was being done in other places only in different ways.

Since then, whenever I travel I wonder at it all – how life is the same everywhere and yet so different. This is the joy, the appeal, the fascination of travel. My understanding of how things should to be done, of how life should be lived, is adjusted and transformed as I’ve seen life being lived – just in another way.

Learning and practicing familiar actions in unfamiliar places is worthwhile. It is educational to learn: how to say “thank you” in Egyptian Arabic (shukran) or in Spanish (gracias); to make and drink rich, delicious coffee from beans grown in the garden of a home in Tanzania; to learn of an intimate way to honor ancestors in Peru, and how to dress respectfully to enter a mosque in Morocco or a cathedral in France, and more. Even these simple actions open an understanding and a respect of the life of others across the world.

The knowledge gained from visiting places in the world expands who I am. My knowledge has been expanded again and so I updated this poem after returning from a two-week trip, at last, to Egypt.

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